Tuesday, October 18, 2011

Friends

I am not one to pick up the phone and call you every day or even once a week. I am not one to have the need to see my friends on a weekly basis. I do not text my friends regularly either. I am not the one to set up a girls night or a get together. That just isn't me.I am ok with that though.

There are some friends that have to call all the time. Or text all the time. Or see each other all the time. They get frustrated with me if they actions are not reciprocated. They get offended by my lack of effort I geuss you can say. But I don't think it really is lack of effort, I think it is life/family/husbands come first. Maybe their priorities are different than mine. Which is totally ok. Everyone is different. But they just need that in their lives.

I on the other hand am ok being alone. Well not alone, but being with my husband or family a majority of the time. Don't get me wrong I love me some girl time. Being silly. Chatting. Drinking. Etc. But I don't need it on a weekly basis. Maybe monthly. Maybe even every other month.

I have a few friends that are the same as me in this regards, you know who you are ;)  And you know I love it! There are zero hurt feelings. We understand things come up. Life gets busy. Husbands and kids {if they have them} come first. I am ok with that. So are they. There is no need for apologies.

When we hang out, it is like old times. There is no weird or hurt feelings. There is no awkwardness. It is pure fun! We chat it up like we never missed a beat. That's what I really love about these friendships. But when something is wrong. When something needs to be celebrated. We are there for each other. Call me up at 2am and I will answer. I will always be there for my friends. I love each and every one of them.

13 comments:

Sharon said...

Thats a great poem! Love it

Smiling is Good for Your Teeth said...

This is great to always keep in mind - I feel like I used to be the needy friend and now being married I understand the other side - I totally agree with you..priorities change, and that is OKAY!

Rebekah said...

I only see my best friends twice a year and we pick up right where we left off and it's great! We talk about once a week and also text a few times a week. Those friendships are the best because I know they'll always be there!

Lindsay said...

So beautifully said :)

Kasey Lynne said...

I am the exact same way when it comes to texting/calling/spending time with them. It definitely depends on the person's priorities!

And sometimes friends understand, and then there are other times when they don't.

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